A Special Day

Today is a special day!  Today is a birthday – the actual would-have-been birth day – of our first child!  It was my due date.  Funny how I don’t remember off the top of my head which day I had the miscarriage, but this day, May 3rd, is forever seared in my memory.

I hope the angels have a party for you, Baby.  Sunshine and colorful balloons and fluffy cotton-candy clouds!  Oh, how I miss to see what your face looks like!

And oh the irony – cruel, cruel irony.  Instead of having a baby in my arms, I am practicing a flip on the trampoline, still a child myself.  Life is very different than it would have been.

I am not the only one.  Out of six pregnancies that I knew of – my own mom and my mother-in-law included – 5 out of 6 of the babies died (including vanishing twin syndrome and a stillbirth).  With my first pregnancy experience ending in miscarriage, and being surrounded by all these others, it is hard to believe that we can have a ‘normal’ healthy pregnancy and baby someday.  So I want to introduce to you, on this special day, the baby who brought hope… the ONE baby who lived!!!

She is special to me in a deeper way because she signifies LIFE and HOPE and JOY!  And she gives me COURAGE, that maybe next time the outcome will be different; that someday we can have a baby!  (And we will get to meet little Lilly in June!  Yay!!!  Our friends live in far away WI. :P)

Later pictures will be coming of the bulbs we planted that are blooming this week!